Ever felt like you and your partner were speaking different languages when it comes to sexual desires and pleasures? Do you crave deeper intimacy and connection in your romantic life? If so, you're not alone. Understanding your Erotic Blueprint™ Type can be the key to unlocking a world of sexual satisfaction, self-awareness, and fulfilling connections with your partner(s). In this article, Relationships Coach Shelley will delve into the concept of Erotic Blueprints™. Keep reading to explore the five distinct Erotic Blueprint™ Types.
Use this article to help understand what the Erotic Blueprint™ Types are, and what type you might be. This article can help you navigate the intricate landscape of human desire and pleasure.
48% of people in in long-term, serious relationships, are not satisfied with their sex lives! That’s surprising considering they’ve likely found someone who should know them well. If you’re feeling unsatisfied in the bedroom, you’re not alone. In this article we’ll explain the five distinct Erotic Blueprint™ Types. This article can help people better understand what they need to feel fulfilled in the bedroom.
What are the Erotic Blueprints™?
In our world, personal growth and self-awareness are highly valued. It's essential not to neglect the exploration of your own sexuality and erotic pleasure. This can be accomplished by learning about The Erotic Blueprints™.
The Erotic Blueprints™ are essentially a personality type based on your sexual preferences.
Maybe you’ve heard of love languages before? “Love languages” is a term describing common ways that we show our friends, family, and relationship partner(s) that we care about them. There are five common love languages. Many people find one or more love languages meaningful.
The five love languages are: words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, and receiving gifts. Learn more about the five love languages.
Love languages are shown through the actions you take to show others you care for them. Love languages are also seen through the actions that others do to you that you appreciate.
I identify with the quality time and receiving gifts love languages. I feel good when I spend time with my friends or family. I feel fulfilled. As for receiving gifts, the gifts don’t need to be expensive! A small charm for a necklace, or a vase of flowers, shows me I was thought of today. I love to receive gifts as much as I love to give gifts. Gifts aren't so much about price as they are about the meaning.
It’s entirely possible that the people you love do not share the same preferred love languages. Many couples and friends feel unappreciated. This is because the people in their lives aren’t providing them with the type of love that’s most meaningful to them.
Sharing the same love language as your partner is convenient, but isn’t necessary so long as good communication and reciprocation are present. Understanding your love language allows you to understand yourself. It's also a great way to communicate your needs.
The 5 Erotic Blueprints™ are like the five Love Languages. They can help us understand more about ourselves and our desires. They're also helpful in knowing the desires of our partner(s).
Once we know about ourselves, we’re more easily able to ask for what we need in our relationships. Both personality types can impact your romantic relationship(s). The biggest difference though is that while love languages can be for platonic and romantic love, the Erotic Blueprints™ are all about sexual love and wants. Let’s dive into the five Erotic Blueprint™ Types.
Describing the 5 Erotic Blueprint™ Types:
At surface level, the five Erotic Blueprint™ Types are:
Let’s explore each of five Erotic Blueprint™ Types in more detail.
Those with an Energetic Blueprint find arousal in the anticipation, space, and teasing that precedes physical touch.
Energetic Blueprint Turn Ons
They possess heightened sensitivity. Many Energetics require time to assimilate to sexual contact. For these individuals, building erotic tension through teasing touch, eye contact, and matching breath is essential. Energetics can experience full-body orgasms without genital touch! They need a sense of safety to maintain arousal. It's important to guard against distractions that can disrupt their delicate balance. You might be an Energetic if any of these relate to you. Find out your Erotic Blueprint™ Type now.
Energetic Blueprint Toys
Toys such as feathers and essential oils can enhance their pleasure. For those that find energy in crystals, gemstone toys are great.
Energetic Blueprint Turn Offs
Too much stimulation too quickly can be a turn-off. Energetics may easily become overwhelmed. They may struggle from carrying emotional baggage from others. Continuous touch may lead to overwhelm, which can turn painful. Setting boundaries is crucial to prevent disassociation.
Sensuals are all about engaging their five senses—sight, smell, hearing, taste, and touch—during sexual encounters.
Sensual Blueprint Turn Ons
They can enjoy prolonged waves of pleasure when deeply immersed in their senses. Creating the right ambiance is crucial for Sensuals. They prefer to use various forms of touch, beautiful settings, music, and relaxation to heighten their experiences. The lead-up and follow-through are almost as important. This could be considered “setting the mood” with a nice candle-lit dinner. Or this could include playing nice music during aftercare. You might be a Sensual if any of these relate to you. Find out your Erotic Blueprint™ Type now.
Sensual Blueprint Toys
Sensation play, and the use of blindfolds can be especially stimulating for them! The use of fabrics is another way to ignite their senses. Experiment with different clothing options, or bedsheet fabrics.
Sensual Blueprint Turn Offs
Sensuals may struggle to get out of their heads. They may need to be in the ‘perfect’ environment to become aroused. They can easily become distracted. This is especially true if they’re haunted by the elusive orgasm.
If you or your partner are a woman, read my recent article. Learn more about female anatomy and the orgasm.
The Sexual Blueprint is all about pursuing orgasm. For them, sex serves as a route to relaxation or fulfilling a basic need.
Sexual Blueprint Turn Ons
Arousal is easy for these individuals. It can be accomplished through genital stimulation. For many Sexuals, sex is fun and relaxing. They likely appreciate explicit visuals, dirty talk, and penetration. Orgasms are the goal. You might be a Sexual if any of these relate to you. Find out your Erotic Blueprint™ Type now.
Sexual Blueprint Toys
Most Sexuals love toys that go on or around the erogenous zones. Spice up your game by experimenting with Bluetooth toys!
Sexual Blueprint Turn Offs
Those with a Sexual Blueprint can focus on genital touch, which could lead to a lack of exploration and variety. In addition, they may have a habit of becoming overly focused on achieving orgasm. This can cause them to miss the journey with their partners. Not every partner wants sexual pleasure to be a race. Many Sexuals may experience shame if they don't orgasm.
Kink enthusiasts find arousal in the “taboo”. This could include being excited by power dynamics, pushing boundaries, and exploring psychological, sensory, or fetish-based kinks.
Kinky Blueprint Turn Ons
The allure of unconventional desires and experiences intrigues those with kinky inclinations. They find excitement in scenarios or behaviors different from societal norms. The “taboo” they’re aroused by can be different for each person. However, it’s based around one commonship: doing something that society would tell them they’re “not supposed to do” feels great. Those with the Kinky Blueprint tend to incorporate a significant degree of fantasy into their sexual encounters. They may relish the space for role-play scenarios. You might be a Kinky if any of these relate to you. Find out your Erotic Blueprint™ Type now.
Kinky Blueprint Toys
Depending on a Kinky’s preferences, sensation toys are a great option. Think paddles and chains for something a little heavier. Bondage toys are also great.
Kinky Blueprint Turn Offs
Shame often accompanies the Kinky Blueprint. Kinkys may feel guilty for their desires. Sharing these desires can be challenging, especially if they've faced negative reactions from past partners. Safe exploration and open communication are essential!
Shapeshifters are highly adaptable and enjoy a variety of sexual experiences. They have a broad capacity for pleasure and are open to exploration.
Shapeshifter Blueprint Turn Ons
They possess an intense desire for variety. Fresh and novel experiences are essential to satisfy the cravings of those with the Shapeshifter blueprint. Shapeshifters may find that they need to “mix things up in the bedroom”. Many shapeshifters create a sexual bucket list for themselves. You might be a Shapeshifter if any of these relate to you. Find out your Erotic Blueprint™ Type now.
Shapeshifter Blueprint Toys
Shapeshifters may benefit from assembling a broad sexual toolkit. This toolkit could include a variety of toys, accessories, clothing, and more. Shapeshifters prefer to keep the experience open and engaging.
Shapeshifter Blueprint Turn Offs
Shapeshifters can become overwhelmed by their adaptability. This causes them to lose focus and feel too complex for their partners. They may struggle with people-pleasing tendencies. Difficulty in asserting their own desires is another commonship. They may carry many of the same turn-offs associated with other Blueprints.
Understanding Your Erotic Blueprint™
Curious what your Erotic Blueprint™ Type is?
Your Erotic Blueprint™ is your sexual personality type. Identifying and understanding your Erotic Blueprint™ Type can have profound effects on your sexual satisfaction, self-awareness, and connection with your partner(s). Just as you have unique love languages, you also possess distinct ways of experiencing pleasure and desire.
Knowing your primary and secondary Erotic Blueprints™ allows you to communicate your needs and desires with confidence. It helps you and your partner(s) make informed choices in the bedroom. This allows you both to foster deeper intimacy and more satisfying sexual experiences.
Take the Erotic Blueprints™ Quiz to discover your Erotic Blueprints™ Type and learn more spicy details about yourself.
Taking the Erotic Blueprints™ Quiz can help you better understand all your unique turn-ons and turn-offs. This can do wonders for you and your partner(s) in bed. Your quiz results may also help give you language that you can use to better describe your needs and desires to those you’re intimately involved with. This can lead to better sexual pleasure for you both.
Along with offering the Erotic Blueprints™ course, I also offer Erotic Blueprints events. They’re fun and educational events where you get to explore the various Erotic Blueprint™ Types. See when our next Erotic Blueprints™ event is.
The Importance of Great Sex Education
Sex education is a vital aspect of personal growth and well-being. Sadly, traditional sex education can fall short. It fails to address individual desires and boundaries. Worst of all, it doesn't address the complexities of human sexuality. Great sex education is free of shame. It empowers people to make informed, satisfying choices.
Find a mentor, sexuality educator, or relationships coach who can guide you through this journey. A trustworthy mentor can help you understand your sexual style. This will help you build lasting connections with partners and navigate the intricacies of erotic pleasure.
Having insight on your Erotic Blueprint™ is a powerful step. It creates a more fulfilling and passionate sex life. Embracing your unique desires allows you to effectively communicate them with your partner(s). You can unlock more in your relationship. Enjoy a deeper level of intimacy, satisfaction, and success in your relationships. Take the time to discover your Erotic Blueprint™. Embark on a journey to a more satisfying and pleasurable sexual experience!